Ouch….

“Oh, that skirt would look so good on me! It wouldn’t be loose like it is on you,” Krista spun around posing in front of me. I had just gotten my latest shipment from the States and I loved my new skirt – until now. Suddenly I was aware of just how skinny I was, how un-filled-out I was. Krista continued to preen and it didn’t matter that she wore thick glasses that magnified her blue eyes ten times, because she had this insanely full and wavy head of blond hair and she had boobs. She, like all the cool crowd, was developing at a rate that I could only dream of, and wouldn’t reach until my late twenties, if that….

Krista

From my latest book, The Mumachen.

Camp was not for me!

The very first day I realized that this horseback riding camp was not for me. The two old German ladies who ran the camp would shout at all of us in German while we were riding the horses. I was kind of a sensitive type who didn’t like being yelled at. Call me prissy too, because I was horrified when each morning one of the German women who ran the camp would scrape all of our leftovers from our plates onto hers and eat them. Cold, chewed up fried eggs, scraped off the plate and eaten. Yuck.

After a couple of days there I had lost so much weight, and I didn’t have much to lose. My parents decided to take me home with them, as they had been there to see how it went the first couple of days. I felt like I was escaping a prison camp…

Horseback Riding Camp
Artwork by Daughter

From my latest book, The Mumachen.

Flood Water Fun!

…Each year it would flood and all the khlongs, which were decidedly very filthy, would overflow, bringing not only the inevitable sewage, but strange looking fish, unidentifiable dead animals, and other interesting artifacts. One time I found a dead shrew, and as gross as that sounds, it was so little and cute. Another time I found what appeared to be a huge snail shell. This thing was bigger than my head. But the weirdest part wasn’t the size of the shell – inside it was the petrified mollusk body. I was sure that it had come from prehistoric times.  I would play for hours in the flood waters, which were often up to my knees. I drifted off to sleep dreaming of three-eyed fish and giant snails in the brown flood waters….

Petrified Snail
Artwork by Daughter

An excerpt from my latest book, The Mumachen.

 

A Walking Fish?!

…She explained that early that morning, as the sun was just beginning to rise, she heard something strange near the pond. The flood waters had retreated, so most of the yard was back to normal, including the pond.

My mom listened politely to Thongsuk’s explanation of this strange fish that she had seen walking along the side of the pond on the pavement. I didn’t give it much thought, but I had a feeling it was a creature that had made its way to the pond from the flood waters. I went out to check on the pond and saw a couple of the large orange fish back in the water. There had been many more of them, but now I could only see two. There was no sign of the walking fish, but there was a suspicious trail of water leading out of the pond and down the patio…

Artwork by Daughter

An excerpt from my latest book, The Mumachen.

Pick a Winner!

I couldn’t concentrate for the rest of the day. Mr. Fischer’s geography class, which I usually loved, just passed by me like a fog. Even classmate Brandon’s daily event of picking his nose and eating it, unaware that we were all watching him in disgust, couldn’t break me out of my thoughts.

I needed to find the Mumachen and help him somehow…

Pick a winner
Artwork by Daughter

An excerpt from my latest book, The Mumachen.

The Human Factor: An Interview with Michael Payano

Sometimes you meet someone who you just know could pull almost anything off, and make it look effortless. The kind of person who looks at a problem, or a need, and figures out the right team of people to get the job done. The kind of person who gets up at 4:00 am and advises others not to waste your mornings because they’re usually the quietest and most productive part of the day.

I recently had the opportunity to interview just such a person. Michael Payano is Chairman and CEO at Al Thuraya Holdings. With over three decades of experience, starting in military and security and evolving into energy, consulting, and everything else worth engaging in, he oversees a global conglomerate consisting of seventeen subsidiary companies. With a solid foundation built during his thirty-one year experience in the US military, where he rose to the rank of full Colonel, he transitioned into the private sector, founding Al Thuraya Consultancy in 2009 in Abu Dhabi, UAE. Under his leadership, Al Thuraya Consultancy swiftly became a leading provider of risk management and security services, paving the way for the expansion of Al Thuraya Holdings into the globally sought after provider it is today. These days, Mr. Payano describes Al Thuraya Holdings as the figurehead for seventeen different companies that he has driven from inception to impact.

After leaving the military, Michael returned to the United States and started a consulting company. He worked with law enforcement agencies, provided tactical and SWAT training, and trained military organizations throughout the Caribbean.

Although he enjoyed that work, he always wanted to return to the Middle East. An opportunity came along in the United Arab Emirates, and he took it. This decision changed the direction of his career.

The first company he started was Al Thuraya Consultancy, and it’s still operating today.  He never planned to build other companies and expanding businesses operating across different industries. It happened because their clients kept asking them to solve different problems.

One client needed security consulting. Another needed logistics. Another investigations. Others needed executive protection, travel risk management, intelligence support or strategic advice.

Michael Payano supplies solutions.

Sometimes that solution is security. Sometimes it’s understanding social risk, investigations, logistics, technology, executive protection, automation, travel risk management or strategic advisory services. The service changes because the problem changes.

Instead of trying to force everything into one company, Michael built specialist companies that could work together while remaining experts in their own field. He explained that that’s really how Al Thuraya Holdings evolved. It wasn’t built from a business plan. It evolved because their clients trusted them to solve problems, and each new challenge pushed them to build another capability.

Michael didn’t build Al Thuraya Holdings around industries. He built it around solving problems.

Throughout his military career and later in business, he kept seeing the same issue. Clients weren’t looking for another security company or another consultant. They were looking for someone who could understand the problem, bring together the right people and solve it.

The Human Factor

Everything comes back to people.

Whether it’s a government, a corporation, an investor or an individual, every decision is made by a human being. Every fraud case, every security incident, every compliance failure, every crisis and every successful negotiation starts with human behavior.

That is really what Al Thuraya Holdings is about. They help organizations understand complexity, reduce ambiguity where possible and make better decisions. Sometimes that means putting boots on the ground. Sometimes it means providing technology. Sometimes it means advising a CEO or a government minister.

Michael believes that success isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about being willing to deal with failing, getting up, and ambiguity. To adapt and keep moving forward.

Throughout his military career and later in business, he learned that no plan survives first contact exactly as you imagined it. The organizations and the leaders who succeed are the ones who adapt the fastest without losing sight of who they are and what they stand for.

Michael explained that Al Thuraya Holdings wasn’t built because he wanted to create a large company. It was built because clients trusted them with difficult problems, and every time they solved one, the clients came back with another. The business grew because they continued to solve problems, not because growth itself was the objective.

For younger leaders and entrepreneurs, Michael’s recommendation is to build your reputation before you build your company. Your reputation will open more doors than your marketing ever will. Verify before you trust, keep your word, treat people with respect and never stop learning. There will always be someone smarter than you or with more resources than you, but integrity and consistency are things you control every day.

Finally, never lose sight of why you started. Titles, revenue, and success come and go. What matters is whether you’ve made a positive difference in the lives of the people you’ve served, the people you’ve led and the communities you’ve worked in. At the end of the day, that’s the legacy Mr. Payano hopes to leave behind.

From security to logistics, helping people navigate a country they’re unfamiliar with, understanding local customs, avoiding unnecessary issues and making sure everything runs smoothly behind the scenes, to ease of movement, Al Thuraya Holdings has their clients covered.

When everything works well, nobody notices. That’s usually the sign they have done their job properly.

If you would like to learn more about Michael Payano and Al Thuraya Holdings, please visit www.michaelpayano.com and www.althurayaholdings.com.

This article was originally published on OpsLens.com.

The Red Ant Attack!

…I was reaching up for one of the flowers when I noticed that something was very wrong. I was covered in red ants and they were all biting me. These weren’t the kind of red ants you find in the States, these were the bright orange kind that I would find in the yard and if you held your hand over them, they would spray acid up at you. They were incredibly aggressive, and I was standing on a hill of them!

My daughter's rendering of the Mumachen
My daughter’s rendering of the Mumachen

 

An excerpt from my latest book, The Mumachen.

The Chain: Connection in the Florida Keys is available for pre-order!

A question I always get…..

“Where are you from?”

Well, that’s not so easy to answer. I grew up in multiple locations, so the story ends up like a chain of events. Most people probably tune out within five seconds.

One of these places was the Florida Keys – a beautiful and exotic chain of islands off of Florida. Growing up in the Keys in the early 80s was an interesting experience, and its influence has been an inspiration for my series, The Adventures of Shelly Beach.

Now I have another Keys-themed publication to tout! I have been published in

The Chain: Connection in the Florida Keys

The Chain is described as a community anthology that includes original poetry, fiction, and creative nonfiction by 19 local writers and 3 Kids’ Poetry Contest winners.

The book is available now for pre-order. The official release date is August 4, 2026. There will be some book launch appearances – with one I know of in the beginning of October.

Get your copy now! It has some wonderful writers and I think you will really love it. See you at the book launch!

The Chain Preorder announcement

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Scooby Doo Crew

We spun around and around repeating, “Bloody Mary, Bloody Mary…”

We all stopped.

“You’re supposed to say it three times!” I shrieked, disappointed in my fearful friends. I looked in the mirror. Nothing. Secretly I was relieved; I was scared too…

Artwork by Daughter

An excerpt from my latest book, The Mumachen.